Where Hollywood Movies END Real Marriage BEGINS
Real marriage isn't moonlight and roses. Real marriage is bad smells and bad sounds.
Jeanne talks candidly to a group of women who asked her..."What do you wish people would have told you when you were younger about marriage?"
You can find more than 500 Resources with complete messages and youth leader mentoring from Jeanne Mayo at http://youthleaderscoach.com
Real marriage isn't moonlight and roses. Real marriage is bad smells and bad sounds.
Jeanne talks candidly to a group of women who asked her..."What do you wish people would have told you when you were younger about marriage?"
You can find more than 500 Resources with complete messages and youth leader mentoring from Jeanne Mayo at http://youthleaderscoach.com
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In all honesty, most people put more reasoned thought into the choice of a car or a home than they do into their choice of a lifelong mate. So I share with you, ten simple questions that you can ask your seriously dating single adults before they "pop the big question." Feel free to make several copies of this Youth Leader's Coach and hand them out to students early in the game when serious relationships are beginning to emerge. These simple ten questions will give invaluable specifics to help cut through the fantasy world of a "Cinderella romance."
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But in this Source, I attempt to share with my gang a more biblical and realistic look at true love. It's a love that 1 Corinthians 13 reminds us "does not demand its own way." It's a love that flies in the face of this generation's "me-centered" version. And most of all, it's a love that makes the Author of Love smile. So grab a cup of coffee and join me at a youth service. I'm really glad you showed up!
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